Dare to Self Improve

As I write these posts to improving yourself socially, one of the things I try to keep in mind is taking baby steps. It would be easy to say, “Just go out and start talking to people!” The problem is, for many people, fear of doing such a thing is almost crippling, hence I’ve tried to break down the process one step at a time.

At some point however, you really do need to do some self-evaluation and ask yourself, “Do I really WANT to change? Am I willing to do whatever it takes? Am I ready to endure a period of discomfort to have the end result?”

You need to convince yourself to say a RESOUNDING “yes” to all of these questions before you proceed to go about changing. If there’s any doubt, then you’re not ready and you’ll likely start the process, then quit when things get difficult or uncomfortable.

So, if you’ve been putting off smiling, or displaying the confidence that I’ve written previously, reevaluate yourself and your goals, and tell yourself to “JUST DO IT!”

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