Apr 24 2008
The Eyes have it
So thus far I’ve outlined a lot of things you can do with your body language to be more approachable. I was about to start writing about how to start conversations and be socially saavy, but I don’t think we’re ready for that yet.
Let’s stay on the topic of Being approachable. So we’re displaying confident body language, and smiling so far. Now it’s time to really use your eyes. Concentrate on making eye contact with people and not immediately looking away!
I still catch myself looking away on occassion…this one is tough! But really focus on holding the eye contact and SMILING! But don’t only smile with your mouth…smile with your eyes! This is very powerful! All of a sudden you go from a random stranger, to someone memorable that the other person may want to talk to!
More on the power of eye contact tomorrow!
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