Dare to Self Improve

They say eyes are the window to the soul. Cliche? Yes. True? Definitely!

Instinctually we ascertain a lot about people based on their eyes when we first meet them. Do there eyes wander a lot? Are they constantly looking away from you. Is their “eye language” incongruent with the rest of their body language? These mini-calculations are subconciously going through our minds during our social interactions, and many times it is the outcome of these micro calculations that gives us a “feeling” about someone.

You know when you meet someone, but for some non-particular reason, you don’t get the best feeling, or they rub you the wrong way? Eye movement is a huge reason.

So we want to be the opposite! In the posts this week, I’ll be getting into the specifics of what positive eye contact is and how to display more of it.

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