Dare to Self Improve

Watch Pierce Brosnan’s James Bond eyes. That charming gaze he always gives. One little gaze and you think “Wow, this guys charming, inviting, and someone who would be interesting to talk to.” It almost has an element of knowing-micheivousness.

What is so special about what he does with his eyes? First, notice that his eyes aren’t very shifty. Each look is purposeful. Shifty eyes signal nervousness and make people feel uneasy around you. Also, notice he looks very relaxed. He’s never staring or looking too hard.

So, when you make eye contact with people, try to be relaxed, and CONFIDENTLY hold your eye contact while giving a slight smile. Make sure you smile with your eyes! That is the difference between and genuine smile, and a fake, smile only-with-mouth smile. The best way I can describe it is a slight eye squint.

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