Dare to Self Improve

Women are particularly sensitive to touch! You’ll notice immediately if a girl likes you (friendship, romance, or otherwise) because she’ll begin touching you subconsciously, in the midst of conversation. Grabbing your arm, playfully tapping your knee etc. For women, touch is a definite sign of comfort.

Generally when I first meet a woman, we usually exchange hand shakes (or in my case, I try to make it more fun by doing high fives or some cooky, “hip,” made up, secret handshake). By the time we’re ready to part ways though, I almost always go for the hug (even if it’s the “I don’t know you super well side-hug”). Still, doing this ramps up the rapport between you.

If we’ve had any sort of a connection or great conversation, then I’ll go for the full-on hug! A note about hugs: there’s nothing more disappointing and anti-climacitc than a weak hug! You’ve got to give a good SQUEEZE!!! Whether or not they realize it, the woman will feel more comfortable (as will I) next time we see each other. AND of course when I see them again, I’ll go in for a nice big hug!

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