Aug 28 2008
Escalating with Touch
Welp, I decided to share one of the little things I like to pull out on a first date, when I decide I need to ramp things up a bit. Sometimes, for whatever reason, during the course of the date, I may not have been able to get enough physical contact in with my date. It could be because there’s a table separating us, or the environment is not conducive to it…whatever!
So after leaving whatever venue we were in, I spontaneously ask, “Hey! Do you know how to Salsa?” If she says “yes” then I’ll say something like, “Good, then you should be able to keep up!” If she says “no,” then I’ll say “Well, it’s time for your first lesson!” Without hesitation, I take her hands and begin Salsaing right there on the sidewalk or street! Now we are holding hands, dancing, having fun, and doing something a little bit crazy!
So how has doing this made things more comfortable? I’ll expand on that tomorrow.
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