Dare to Self Improve

For some people, it’s abundantly clear as to who has self-confidence and who does not. Usually for guys, someone who exudes confidence can actually be either totally self-confident, or totally insecure and faking self-confidence. Who’s the best judge of true confidence?

Women.

Women are incredible judges of character on first impressions. It’s downright astounding. For example, I have a friend who’s fun to hang out with, when the guys are out, but every single girl I know that meets him, doesn’t care for him. Why? Because he is insecure. That’s no reason to dislike him in itself, but he covers up his insecurity with a fake air of confidence by acting overtly alpha male to a point where women are turned off.

I think confidence can be faked, but not by acting. If you learn to display confident body language (as I’ve mentioned in an earlier post) that’s a start. Taking risks is another big step.

Tomorrow, I’ll expand on this “taking risks” concept.

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