Dare to Self Improve

As I mentioned yesterday, my second night in Vegas, I had to “go for it” in a different way. That evening we decided to go to a big dance club called “Jet” in the Mirage hotel. The club was awesome except for one major thing…the music was so loud everywhere that I could not possible go up to a person I don’t know and start a conversation. It would be far to difficult. I was having a hard enough time understanding one-liners from my friends!

So how could I go about meeting people? Well….it is a dance club.

At places like this, I’m usually uncomfortable going up to a random girl and trying to dance with her. A lot of guys do the whole, “hover, then approach from behind and start grinding.” I think that approach is totally unconfident and downright skeezy.

Instead, I decided to just walk through the crowd and the minute I saw a girl I wanted to dance with, I went straight up to her, grabbed her hand, and said something like, “You’re cute and I’d love to dance with you!” Guess what? This worked almost EVERY time! I think there was only one girl who didn’t want to dance. Why did it work? Because I approached confidently and direct. I didn’t hide anything, and put myself on the line.

Now that we’re talking about dancing, I think I’d like to continue this thought process tomorrow: Dancing do’s and don’ts

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