Dare to Self Improve

Yesterday I talked all about social calibration: having a feel for the comfort level of people around and acting accordingly. Social Calibration is ESPECIALLY important when involved in relations with a member of the opposite sex!

A couple of days ago, I went on a first date with a very cute girl I recently met. We met at my place and I took her out for drinks. Obviously, since I like this girl, my goal is to escalate the relationship as much as possible before the end of the date. At the bar, we talked and had a lot of fun. There was a lot of teasing (mostly by me) and even more laughing.

Things were going well!

I knew she liked me judging by the way she’d playfully punch my shoulder when I teased her, or grabbed my arm when she got excited about something. When we were walking back to the car though, I knew we hadn’t physically escalated quite enough for me to kiss her comfortably.

Luckily I had some tricks up my sleeve…:)

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