Dare to Self Improve

When it came time to asking for a girl’s phone number, I used to always chicken out. The interactions always ended great because I never had to “put myself out there” and express any interest! BUT, everything thereafter was terribly unfullfilling.

Then I realized I had nothing to lose. If I don’t ask for her number, I’ll probably never see her again. If I DO and for some reason she says “no”, the outcome is still the same…I’ll never see her again. BUT, if we exchange numbers, then there is always the possibility for something GREAT!

This last Sunday, I was at a sports bar by myself, watching my beloved (yet terrible) Kansas City Chiefs play. I started talking to a very cute girl who was also a Chiefs fan. We bantered all morning, but nothing particularly notable, flirty, or anything like that. When it was time for me to leave, I knew I had to try and get her number. The old me would have just said, “Nice to meet you!” and been off.

Suffice to say, I got her number and we (hopefully) will be watching the Chiefs game together next week!

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